Dancing Lessons?

Things continue to be a bit hectic in my life. Last week I was having a hard time with my band. Something got stuck and it took a few days before I felt better. I had to go on liquids for two days and then slowly transition to soft foods. Even though I have had my band for a little over a year now it can still be unpredictable. I follow all of the rules but sometimes things happen. My friend Rhonda and I talked about this just the other day. She also has a band and experiences some of the same issues as I do. It just goes to show that this process is not an easy one. I have learned a lot along the way though. If I get stuck with food I have learned what I need to do in order to stay healthy. Okay, that's not really what my post was suppose to be about this morning, I just wanted to share that experience for those who are either thinking about lapband surgery as well as those who may be experiencing the same things.

You probably wondering what my title is all about so I'm going to explain. This morning Larry, my husbnad, shocked the heck out of me. After driving my son to school, he walked into the house and announced that he wanted to take dancing lessons with me. At first I didn't know what he was talking about and I was tempted to laugh at his suggestion. I soon realized that he was serious. He said that as he was driving back home this morning the thought "popped" into his head. I listened as he explained his reasons. Larry told me that he wants to start really enjoying our time together. We have been through a lot in our lives and have overcome many obstacles. Along the way we have neglected ourselves (I'm sure you can all relate!). He told me that I was his best friend (I began to cry at this moment) and that he wants to take the time to do something really special and fun with me. I was speechless. Larry and I have been together for 11 years and married for almost 5. For the most part, we have a wonderful relationship. We have ups and downs like everyone else but we have always been there for each other when it matters most. I was so touch when he said that I was his best friend because it was so sincere and geniune. I told him that I would love to take dance lessons and would start looking for places. My only objection is ballroom dancing because it's too serious for me.

On another note, I am excited to be going to the support group meeting tonight. I haven't been in a few months. I can't wait to see how everyone is doing and I'm looking to forward to seeing some of my friends. I also really enjoy meeting new people, especially those who are in the beginning stages of this journey.

I wish you all a happy and healthy Monday!
Jenn

Wii Fit.....

My Christmas present from my husband was a Wii Fit. I actually got the idea from my friend Rhonda (thanks Rhonda!) when I ran into her at Target a few weeks before Christmas. I told Larry about it and he got it for me, well actually us.

I have to tell you that I LOVE it! The Wii system comes with a free interactive sports game as well. Larry and I have a blast playing tennis and baseball. After Christmas I bought the personal trainer disc for the fit system. It's awesome! I can set my workout for as little as 15 minutes or as long as 75. It's a lot of fun and very easy to follow. The best part is I get to exercise in the privacy of my own home and not have the excuse of the bad weather.

Anyone who knows me knows that I have been struggling with exercising the most in this process. I just couldn't seem to get myself motivated. Could it be this easy? Time will tell.....

Have a great day!
Jenn

Happy New Year!

I would like to take a quick moment to say Happy New year to all. I wish you all a year filled with love, happiness, and health.

Before I begin this blog I wanted to address the comment from my last entry. I'm sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I had my surgery on December 26, 2007. I chose the band because I felt like it was the right surgery for me. It hasn't been easy but I have certainly learned a lot about myself in this process. As far as my total weightloss, I did finally weigh myself and I'm at just about 65 pounds. I feel really good about my progress although I struggled with having realistic expectations. If you decide to go forward with surgery I would just say to make this about you. Try not to let others negatively influence you or talk you out of it. I would go back and do it all over in a heart beat. Whatever you decide, I wish you the very best!

Every year since I can remember I have had the same New Year's resolution, "Lose weight and exercise." This year I decided to break the cycle. My new resolution is 3 simple words, "Live, Laugh, Love." Let me explain. I have this amazing friend Val. When I bought my house she lived accross the street with her family. She has a son who is the same age as Corey. Needless to say, we became very close friends as did our boys. Two years ago Val told me that her family was moving out of state because her husband's job was relocating. We were devestated and cried almost everyday until she moved. We vowed to see each other as often as we could. Since then we have seen each as often as possible.

Recently Val's been having some personal problems. She invited Corey and I to visit last week. We jumped at the opportunity. Larry stayed home. Val is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. She is so kind and never, I mean never, has a mean thing to say about anyone. She always looks for the good in everyone. Anyway, we had the best time. I haven't "lived, laughed, or loved" like that in so long. We talked all night long, watched movies, and she even taught me how to knit. Being there with Val reminded me how good it feels to be happy, really, truely happy. We are already planning our next visit in February.

This year I made a vow to myself. I vow to live my life to the fullest and appreciate the little things. I also vow to laugh and laugh often. Life is too short and I'm tired of getting caught up in the negative things. Finally, I vow to love, especially myself. I vow to love myself for who I am and to accept myself as I am.

I challenge you all to "Live, Laugh, and Love" more in your lives this year.

Jenn